No split between, 'Who You Are', what you say, and how you live
Standing shoulder to shoulder with men who refuse mediocrity and reflect you back into Truth
Anchoring your Purpose into a higher Truth, so life becomes an offering rather then a performance
This is a deeply embodied journey for men who are done with procrastination, scatteredness, mediocrity. For those ready to identify, embody, and live the deepest truth of their heart rooted in self-confidence and trust.
“The cost of not knowing your purpose is a life of distraction, compromise, and wasted energy. Men feel it in their body long before the mind recognizes it.”
A man who hasn’t claimed his purpose fully may struggles with:
· Unfulfilled potential: sensing a deeper fire, but lacking the clarity, discipline, and structure to bring it to life.
· Procrastination: scattered attention, jumping from project to project, unable to stay with what matters.
· Fear of commitment: Withdrawing from deep relationships, work, or meaningful projects when discomfort becomes hard to stay with.
· Unintegrated sexual energy: reactive attraction, insecurity around desire, and vitality leaking into distraction rather than direction.
· Low self esteem: reliance on validation, uncertainty in decisions, and a lack of inner steadiness.
Choosing one path and staying long enough for your Purpose to take shape through you
Ownership without excuses, witnessed by other men
Turning insight into lived experience through the body, the breath and disciplined practise
The Structure
Commitment & Integrity as Pillars
Consecration & Intention Sharing
Life Force, Sacred Sexuality & Semen Retention
Pausing, Resting in Consciousness & Sharing Circle
Masculine Nourishment & Relaxation
Courage, Devotion, Radical Responsibility & Discipline as Self-Love
Opening to Love, Devotion & Love without an Object
Truth & Inner Vision
Clearing Mental Fog
Shadow Work
Rite of Passage
Closing & Blessing Ritual
Communication, Speaking from the Heart & Truth as the Way
Relationship to the Divine
Life as a Prayer in Service
A seat at the round table of brothers for this 10-week initiation journey
10 weekly live sessions:
Weekly tailored practice videos in alignment with the topic of the week
Weekly challenges to overcome and grow into the man you want to become
Weekly self-reflection and inquiry for deepening the connection to your inner truth
Ongoing daily support & Q&A section for guidance throughout the container
Live translations of the weekly calls & assignments in your native language
Welcome package including cacao, candles and sacred resins for our ceremonies
20 % discount on all private offers with Robert & Mario booked during the course
Priority access to all future "Light of Presence" containers with an exclusive offer
A lived understanding of integrity and commitment, where sensing, speaking, and acting come into alignment.
Increased capacity to speak your truth & boundaries, without aggression, collapse, or justification.
A clear and embodied sense of masculine presence, rooted in your body and nervous system.
A regulated nervous system that supports clarity under stress, emotional availability in intimacy & relationships.
A felt sense of brotherhood and accountability, with men who meet you honestly and support you in what you have committed to.
A deeper trust in yourself,being able to stay present, grounded, and true even when life challenges you.
Expanded emotional maturity, allowing you to feel fully and respond with clarity instead of reactivity.
A true connection to your purpose & unique gift, offered from a place of devotion instead of obligation
“Until a man is related to his own depths, he will seek completion in the wrong places.”
- Carl Jung -
“When one has not had a good father, one must create one.”
- Friedrich Nietzsche -
“A man without a purpose is like a ship without a rudder — he will drift, and no woman can trust where he is going.”
- David Deida -
Mario Radlinger
I’m Mario, founder of holistic ally, walking a path shaped by cacao, medicinal mushrooms, and the quiet intelligence of plant medicine.
The deepest mission for me on this planet is to remind every single being of their truest essence and to support and guide people into their limitless potential and to clarify their purpose.
I create spaces where feelings and depth are welcomed as doorways into real presence. Over the past year, men’s work has been a central initiation, teaching me to rest deeply in presence and to place my purpose on the altar of love, built with reverence; it is my dearest intention to step into humble leadership and share the gifts, tools, and embodiment I have received over the past eight years.
Robert Marc Steenhoff
I’m a men’s work facilitator and coach, operating under the flag of Adames Coaching, guiding trauma and shadow integration, chronic pain transformation, and conscious relational and sexual embodiment.
In my work, I combine Integrated Shadow Work, IFS and parts work, embodiment practices, and various tools rooted in shamanic and ancient mystical traditions.
In 2013, I walked away from a life as a professional poker player in search of truth and healing.
Over the past 10+ years, I’ve dedicated myself to studying and practicing the wisdom of ancient spiritual traditions, largely while traveling solo around the world.
My path has included long silent meditation retreats, immersive apprenticeships in plant-medicine traditions, service as a karma yogi, and an ongoing devotion to my current Teacher, who is a Shaman in the Bwiti Tradition.
A significant part of my transformation in recent years has stemmed from a deep immersion in men’s work, including courses, long-term groups, and brotherhood, which is why I am deeply committed to offering this work in service to others.
